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寫給突然失去親人的弱勢群體, 尤其是那些遭受人生重大打擊同時又正處于更年期的婦女:
我突然失去Jack, 我世界上最愛的摯友、生意夥伴、我的 “父親”、“兄弟”. 快3年了, 這3年來,
一點不夸張, 我眞是每一天在
“血泊”里爬,一生中從沒有遭受過這么大的傷痛和委屈。這三年來沒有吃過一頓香甜的飯,沒有一天不是靠着安眠藥來幫助我入眠.正如姜金城老師
(《黃宗英畫傳》作者) 對我説的, 小波,你心中有個火山。是的, 這個火山再不爆發出來, 就要把我燒死了。那天知道Jack活不了,
我對着鏡子説: Jack, 從今天起,我的淚水就會一直流到我在天堂與你再見時。 反正我也活不下去, 就聽從家里人的勸説, 再找找看,
可能找到一個下半輩子可以共度晩年的伴吧. 就這樣我把自己放到網上 “for sale”, 心里的感覺其實很複雜.
我覺得我的助手張璐在她的文章中講的對, Jack 是 “媒人”, 介紹了Jay進入我的生活. 大概也只有Jack介紹,
我才能接受Jay吧! 我從杰克身上學到了對所有人都要寬容,因爲每個人都有點‘怪怪“的地方,。。。。。。 |
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感謝信
Dear Rob & Nick -
Thanks a million for all your efforts and planning with love!!!
You helped to create a most wonderful engagement party!
Everyone said what a special party it was!
We truly appreciate your traveling all the way from Warren, Ohio to
come to our party!
Thanks ever so much for serving as the keynote speaker and magician
at the party!
You both were really were terrific! Everyone enjoyed your comments
and tricks.
We will certainly remember this day for the rest of our lives!
You are very treasured friends!
Best regards,
Jay & Xiaobo
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