Appearing before a crowd of over 15,000 people at the
Covelli Centre in Youngstown Ohio on July 25, 2017 President Trump
continues to garner the enthusiastic support of his followers as
well as to mystify his opponents who continue to generate theories
as to why he won.
I have my own theory as to why he won which may be illustrated
through a combination of a fable from Aesop, the ancient Greek
philosopher and advisor to kings, wise words from my advance
placement high school English teacher, and the White Rabbit from
Alice in Wonderland, but let’s first talk a little bit about the
event.
Contrary to the characterization of all Trump supporters as being
merely uneducated bigots, making the effort to speak to as many of
them as possible yields some rather fascinating facts. I had the
opportunity to speak with Vivian Luther (age 60) and her mother
Marian Luther (age 92), both of North Royalton Ohio, and both of
whom I first met at an event at which I was the invited speaker on
the topic of millinery history. Discovering that Vivian was a Trump
supporter would be a surprise to many, as she surely does not fit
the typical narrative. With a college degree in Theater, having
lived and worked as an actress in Los Angeles, California for over
two decades, and having voted once for Bill Clinton, she noted that
many of Bill Clinton’s policies were more similar to those of
President Trump’s that those of Hillary. She also cited her support
for free enterprise, small government and term limits as her reasons
for voting for Mr. Trump.
At the encouragement of her daughter, Marian Luther began acting in
1980 at the age of 55. Garnering the leading lady role in her first
little theater production, she continued to act for ten years. Both
Vivian and Marian Luther attended the event in Youngstown, a
particular testament to Marian’s support at age 92. Marian stated
that she thought her fellow swimmers were going to drown her when
she revealed her support for Mr. Trump at a senior swimming session.
Vivian stated that she was cautious about revealing her support for
Mr. Trump both during and after the election, depending upon the
circumstances.
And this brings up the matter of Secret Trump Supporters.
In the event you haven’t heard of Secret Trump Supporters, it is a
term given to people who are reticent to voice their support for Mr.
Trump based on concerns of being ridiculed or labeled such things as
racist. Interestingly, as voting results now show, many of those who
voted for Barack Obama subsequently voted for Donald Trump. Knowing
that Barack Obama, of both African and American descent, also has
the Arabic middle name of Hussein, it is clear at the very least
that those who voted for both President Obama and President-elect
Trump cannot be considered racists.
Counselor to the President Kellyanne Conway, also his former
campaign manager, had predicted President Trump’s win based upon
these secret supporters who in many ways were analogous to the “shy
Tories” of the United Kingdom’s Brexit vote. In fact, many leading
political experts credit Ms. Conway with propelling President Trump
across the finish line, but how did she do it? Even if you disagree
with Ms. Conway’s politics, she is generally unfailingly polite and
in the critical final months of the campaign focused Mr. Trump’s
efforts on his message as well as conducting himself more like the
Sun than the Wind, as in the following abbreviated Fable of the Wind
and the Sun, by Aesop:
The Wind and the Sun were arguing about which of them was the
stronger when they saw a traveler and devised a plan to settle the
dispute. Whichever of them could make the traveler remove his coat
would be deemed to be the stronger. The Wind tried first, blowing up
a tempest, and with the wind whipping in his ears, the traveler only
pulled his coat more tightly around him. Next it was the Sun’s turn
to try. Beaming genially down upon the traveler, the traveler soon
felt the Sun’s warmth and removed his coat. The moral of the story
is that persuasion governs more effectively than force.
As an advisor to kings, it is easy to see why Aesop wrote these
fables, as it is often difficult and awkward to gainsay the opinions
of those in positions of power, which is a common theme across
cultures and time. As Mr. Trump did win the election, it might be
easy to believe that his brash style was a major contributing
factor, however, it may be that this style, like the wind, made many
resistant to hearing his message. Conversely, it appears that Ms.
Conway’s focus on civil dialogue caused enough people to be open and
receptive to Mr. Trump’s message in the final months of the campaign
and was a significant factor in his success.
Yet many hold the belief the politeness and diplomacy are time
consuming, and at the Youngstown event President Trump stated:
“It's much easier, by the way, to act presidential than what we're
doing here tonight, believe me, and I said with the exception of the
late great Abraham Lincoln, I can be more presidential than any
president that's ever held this office. That I can tell you. It's
real easy. But sadly, we have to move a little faster than that.”
It is interesting to consider why politeness is thought to be time
consuming, and in a famous line from British literature, the
fictitious White Rabbit noted “The hurrier I go, the behinder I get”
which is another way of saying “haste makes waste.”
One reason that politeness is sometimes considered time consuming is
that politeness and etiquette can be abused. In a famous line from
American popular culture the character Don Vito Corleone (The
Godfather) said “I’ll make him an offer he can’t refuse.” This
seemingly polite statement might be interpreted as such a good offer
no reasonable person would turn it down, but in fact, it carries an
undertone of threat of serious harm if the offer is refused.
Of course, it is not only fictitious underworld characters that
misuse politeness, and President Trump, in his book The Art of the
Deal describes his initial meeting as a young man with the president
of the exclusive private Le Club in Manhattan. The club president
brought along a friend and the two drank to excess so that Mr. Trump
states he nearly had to carry them home. Two weeks afterwards, the
president of Le Club did not even remember meeting Mr. Trump,
although he later did invite Mr. Trump to join Le Club. Mr. Trump
stated that as a young man he was unaccustomed to seeing the
behavior displayed at the initial meeting, which stood in stark
contrast to that of his father, who he described as a “rock, very
straight and very solid.” It can be quite a shock to a young person
to witness those in positions of respect or authority behaving in an
untoward manner, which can lead to the belief that politeness and
respectability are little more than hypocrisy.
However, words and actions should be in alignment, and I can recall
one of my high school English teachers often advising the class
“Never reduce yourself to someone else’s level.” This struck a chord
with me and her advice to maintain your own standards despite what
others may do remains sound.
It is surely understandable that President Trump wishes to waste no
time in effectively dealing with terrorism, international criminal
gangs, improving the economy and other matters, but perhaps his
message, sometimes delivered like the wind, only causes American
citizens to pull the collars of their coats up around their ears.
Notably, President Putin when speaking to journalists at the recent
G20 Summit in Germany said what so many others who meet with
President Trump in private say, which is that Mr. Trump in private
is very different from his public persona.
It is time for President Trump to show this more cordial aspect of
his personality in public; it should not be reserved only for those
who meet him in private. The American people, whether or not they
voted for him, deserve to see it for like the sun, it may bring the
warmth for people to find common ground, or at the very least, not
feel so bitterly opposed to each other. Uniting this very divided
country would be a major accomplishment indeed.
Interestingly, in The Art of the Deal Mr. Trump wrote that when he
was thirteen, his father decided to send him to military school, and
although he wasn’t thrilled about it, it turned out to be a good
decision. Possibly remembering that his father was right, Mr. Trump
recently appointed retired U.S. Marine Corps General John Kelly as
his Chief of Staff. Now with the influence of two “Kellys” General
Kelly and Kellyanne Conway, we may hope to engage in the type of
civil discourse which just might Make America Great Again.
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